Yeah, I'm going to be that guy and ask for girl advice on an Apple tech forum. Sorry in advance . Anyways, I just want to get some advice on how I should proceed with this. Let me give some background - my cousin goes to school with a girl who has a daughter (girl of interest) and she told my cousin that she was looking for a boyfriend. My cousin gave her my name and she told her daughter about me. I added the girl of interest on Facebook and we talked for a bit before she gave me her phone number and told me to text her instead. So I texted her. We talked until 1am that night, just about random stuff. The next day we talked a little more and I asked her if she'd want to get a coffee and meet up sometime. She said yeah........when her golf schedule isn't as "demanding." Now I took this as a blatant "no thank you" but after telling her that sounded good, she replied with "yep " So I continued talking to her for the next three or four days, each conversation starting in the afternoon and carrying on until after midnight. She actually did change the subject a few times to keep the conversation going, so I don't think it was annoying to her. However, note that I had to start every conversation on each day - she never texted me first. I texted her last Wednesday and got no reply. Texted her Thursday and got no reply. I waited until yesterday before sending another text...she actually replied to this one and said she was stressed out and had a lot going on and that's why she didn't text me back. I told her if she needed someone to talk to that I was here and she said no, that she's just dealing with some stuff between her friends. I told her I hope she got it worked out, she said probably not, but thanks. I tried to change the subject and get her mind off of it but she didn't reply. That's where we left off. I'm getting mixed signals here...I wanted to ask her to dinner last weekend but she didn't reply to either of my texts. So the weekend came and went with nothing happening. I'd really like to get some advice on how I should proceed with this - should I keep texting her? Should I leave it alone? This has been on my mind for the past week and a half now and I just want to get some perspective from some others. Thanks!