What would you do if you had an older brother that isn't doing well in college and doesn't seem to care, lives at home, smokes weed and drinks 3-4 times a day, and your parents seem to be completely ignorant of what he is doing... not to mention you find some girl's wallet with money, ID, and credit cards in his backpack with a bunch of cash, booze, and weed in it as well? I don't mind the drinking or smoking part, since it's his body he can do whatever, but the fact that he doesn't do well in school, doesn't give a ****, and might be stealing from other people has made me extremely uncomfortable. I was not snooping. I had a friend over and we were looking for a video game controller and the wire was hanging out of the backpack. He wouldn't believe it if I confronted him about it, however. I ask here because there are a lot of intelligent, knowledgable people here with unbiased opinions.