I am building a new home and would like to simplify my life and home theater multimedia experience. Can anyone point me to a "how to" link or article describing the latest choices? I have over 1300 DVD's (I no longer wish to store these on a wall of shelves) a 100" automatic screen, several HD TV's, several rooms requiring audio including outside living area. I envision the whole family using ipads and touches around the home to access information, movies, audio, recipes in kitchen etc. I am having a heck of a time finding decent information to research my quest! Is there something simple that my wife wont feel like shooting me and the remote controls....