Actually, I had a chat back a week ago with one of the online rep. I did ask this question specifically because i was interested in getting a 4core too. I can't remember the exact words but roughly the same as follow.
I want to purchase a single processor MP, and wonder if I can add the other one later.
Yes.
Should I consider the cooling system and any other related parts when I add the other processor?
(then the rep told me to hold, and about 3 min later)
No, anything's ready for the second processor.
That's about it. I don't know how sure the rep was, at least he went somewhere and checked i hope.
I prob go with 8core because I doubt the price of this E5462 Xeon processor will go down by 50% of its current price(add by apple now is $400, retail now is $700+. Never heard of price of Xeon drop 50%).