YOU are the one who sounds like someone who hasn't ever jailbroken an iPhone. By default, SSHing into your iPhone won't work. Jailbreaking and installing the SSH app allows SSH connections to come through, thus you can SSH to the iPhone's IP address and password 'alpine'. So please, do your research beforehand and know what you are talking about.
You clearly didn't read his/her post. Your previous scaremongering post about jailbreaking also leads me to believe you either have a poor understanding of comprehension or you are trolling.