The specific placement in the upper right doesn’t bother me so much as the fact it’s moved from where it’s been for so very long. That said, having it away from my content is actually better in the end.
What I would suggest OP, is when you’re changing volume try and consciously associate the physical action you’re performing with the visual feedback you’re getting. Over time, hopefully you’ll create a subconscious association between the physical action and visual feedback and it will bother you less and less until the point you barely notice it.