Yeah, that lens is great-- if it has trouble, it's usually my fault.
I find that in certain situations (pre-dawn especially) that it has trouble focusing through panes-- like through a screen door or through a dirty window. Also, it tends to want to re-focus a lot, so I just take it to Manual when I need it to stop hunting.
I also have a D40, which I know doesn't have the most efficient metering/focusing system compared to the ones that use 3D focus (D90, etc). Do you have a D40/D60? That could be why.
Anyway, that lens is the best investment I ever made. Love it to death.