Have you turned off System Integrity Protection?
What's that for and how do you turn it off?
Here's a link explaining what it is and how to disable/enable it. You can disable SIP, change your icons (I use LiteIcon), and then reenable SIP. Keep in mind that when a system app gets an update, it'll likely revert to the original icon and you'll have to repeat the procedure.
I have been trying to change my iTunes icon for months. I tried disabling SIP to no avail. Any other thoughts on what might be preventing me from changing this icon? When I copy the new icon to the clipboard, I can see it in Edit, show clipboard, but the paste option is dimmed out and it only dings at me when I try to paste into the icon spot on Get Info. (I hope I am making sense).
This procedure has always worked for me with one exception, ctrl+A then ctrl+C to copy.Make sure SIP is disabled and then try opening the new icon image in Preview, then press ctrl-A and then ctrl-S. Next highlight the iTunes icon at the top left of the Get Info window and press ctrl-V.
This procedure has always worked for me with one exception, ctrl+A then ctrl+C to copy.