There are plenty of apps that let you control Pandora from the menu bar in the App Store. Just about all of them are preferable to the official Pandora app, and most don't use Flash. I use
PandaBar.
For Netflix (and many other web-based services) you can use a site-specific browser app to create a mini-browser just for a specific web site. The end result is "apps" for specific websites like Netflix, Wikipedia, YouTube, etc. The only SSB that I know of for OSX is a program called
Fluid and you have to download it straight from the developer. It's awesome and there's an unpaid version which works quite well. You can even use it to create your own Pandora app if you want, though some of the ones available from the App Store function a little more smoothly because they were designed for Pandora from the ground up.
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