Okay, I know there are millions of in-ear headphone fans, but I truly cannot stand the experience. With that said, has anyone find or can someone recommend an iPhone compatible set of 'over the ear' headphones? The mic/play-pause control I'm not that married to, so it doesn't necessarily have to have that. However, I don't want to have to exacto knife the damn jack to get it to fit in the recessed port! Any suggestions/recommendations? Thanks in advance.