A very interesting debate.
Their is a fair amount of tv given over to parenting skills at the moment on uk tv. This is a good thing. I certainly have had no parenting training - I have read a couple of books but they never can really prepare you for a 2 or 3 year old who is in a disruptive mood. I have smacked my child a couple of times - because my child put herself in danger by running into the road. This was probably due to the anger arising from my fear of losing her. (and anger at myself for letting her get in that position.)
Unless you have kids you really can't understand the pressures that parents are put under. You really have to centre your universe around their wants and needs - which takes some getting used to but is the only way to get any harmony in your house.
A good tool for discipline - when all else has failed - is the "chill out" room - lock them in a safe room in the house for 1 minute for every year old they are. Sounds barbaric but really does work. Sure you feel guilty about doing it - but sure beats (no pun intended) smacking.
I think in the UK we have come along way from the Dickens like corporal punishment imposed at schools but sometimes when I look around where I live I wonder if we have got the balance right. Kid's are put under tremendous pressure from tv - there is some serious atittude about. I see kids running around doing what ever they want - knowing that no one - not even the Police can really do anything about it. They are untouchable - they can mug, graffiti, fight, smoke - whatever they want - and who's gonna stop them? The Police? The Courts? Their parents? The days of the local "bobbie" clipping a little brats ears are over - is this a good thing?
Their is a fair amount of tv given over to parenting skills at the moment on uk tv. This is a good thing. I certainly have had no parenting training - I have read a couple of books but they never can really prepare you for a 2 or 3 year old who is in a disruptive mood. I have smacked my child a couple of times - because my child put herself in danger by running into the road. This was probably due to the anger arising from my fear of losing her. (and anger at myself for letting her get in that position.)
Unless you have kids you really can't understand the pressures that parents are put under. You really have to centre your universe around their wants and needs - which takes some getting used to but is the only way to get any harmony in your house.
A good tool for discipline - when all else has failed - is the "chill out" room - lock them in a safe room in the house for 1 minute for every year old they are. Sounds barbaric but really does work. Sure you feel guilty about doing it - but sure beats (no pun intended) smacking.
I think in the UK we have come along way from the Dickens like corporal punishment imposed at schools but sometimes when I look around where I live I wonder if we have got the balance right. Kid's are put under tremendous pressure from tv - there is some serious atittude about. I see kids running around doing what ever they want - knowing that no one - not even the Police can really do anything about it. They are untouchable - they can mug, graffiti, fight, smoke - whatever they want - and who's gonna stop them? The Police? The Courts? Their parents? The days of the local "bobbie" clipping a little brats ears are over - is this a good thing?