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The public loves to watch people free fall. But the Paula Deen we see is almost certainly not the real Paula Deen. To build her empire she created a persona, a caricature. Who knows what she is really like?

Her deposition statement was painful to hear. Her damage control wasn't adequate. Now her business is paying the price.

It's hard to draw any conclusions from her situation because it's hard to believe she's said one sincere, real public thing in the last fifteen years, good or bad.
 
I guess that depends on whether or not my wife and I have mutually agreed to use that term between us. I expect that when two black people use the term between them there exists some form of unspoken agreement. That does not give me the right to use the term (speaking from a societal contract POV).

I suggest you read up on the history of the word.
 
From another website I frequent:

"I need to say something about Paula Deen and this is it.

Screw you, Paula.

Okay, here’s how Paula Deen hurt me personally. All week long I have been hearing commentators on teevee say that using the N word should be expected from “Southern white women of a certain age.” I even heard one say it was “understandable.”

Hell, no. I don’t know where these commentators got that but they need to put it down right now and never touch it again.

I am Paula Deen’s age and I live in the South. I have not used the N word since I was 6 years old (I heard it at school) and my Irish grandma swatted my bottom for saying it. I was told that words like that do not come out of a lady’s mouth and that Jesus loves all the little children — red and yellow, black and white, they are precious in his sight. I was told to say “colored.”

I never said it again. I was 17 years old when Dr. Martin Luther King won the Nobel Peace Prize. So was Paula Deen. So, if she used that word after 1964, shame on her. She knew full well that she should not be saying that.

But now, when people look at me, they think I talk like Paula Deen, but should be forgiven for it based on my age and my birthplace. No.

Paula Deen knew for a damn fact that those words were hurtful and not acceptable. My grandmother, rest her precious soul, would have stomped her and said indignantly, “And she calls herself a lady?”

My friend Laura sent me this to read. You will feel far less sympathy for Deen after reading this.

So, Paula, screw you. Not all Southern women of a certain age are a bunch of classless witches.

That’s what I have to say about Paula Deen."

And in case the link stops working, of people don't want to click the link, here is the article. Her racial problems go deeper than 'skin deep'...

"By Dan Bernstein-
CBSChicago.com Senior Columnist

(CBS) Until yesterday, nothing associated with Paula Deen could ever be considered delicious.

No amount of fat, salt or sugar could properly disguise the lowbrow, redneck garbage she slung from her homespun TV kitchen – either the insulting recipes or the endless, syrupy patter about her rustic Georgia upbringing. A drawling comfort-mama for diabetic simpletons, she greased and gravied herself into a cultural sweet spot.

Now she’s toast. Buttered.

The civil complaint that would ultimately lead to her firing from the Food Network first made news when it was filed in March of 2011. It’s worth a full read again, now, to note the sheer amount of racist, sexist, anti-Semitic and downright inhuman behavior alleged as normal activity within her business operation.

Transcripts of sworn depositions are turning accusations into truths. Despite her pathetic public pleas for forgiveness, nobody’s buying. She tried to fall on her sword, but she broke it.

This comes as no real surprise to those of us long mindful of the unsettling subtext to her show and entire persona. Anything that calculatedly southern, that proudly deep-Southern, carries with it the weight of history, for better or worse. She was Ole Miss football for daytime television, a stars-and-bars-festooned pickup truck idling on the talk-show couch, a cast-iron-baked Lynyrd Skynyrd anthem of cornmeal and molasses.

Hungry for her “Confederate Bean Soup?” How about a “Sambo Burger

She hasn’t seen anything wrong whatsoever with labels like that, just as she thought it would be so adorable to dress black people up as slaves for a wedding dinner, because that was just so nice way back when.

And despite headlines and carefully-crafted statements from lawyers and publicists, it’s not really about her admitted use of the n-word. It’s the fact that Paula Deen just flatly, clearly, undeniably views blacks as lesser people, if entirely human at all.

Watch her in this videotaped interview she gave the New York Times in the fall of 2012. Far from some latest victim of political-correctness speech police run amok, she then articulated a defense of slavery amid her wistful fondness for the ways of the antebellum South. She tried to inoculate against any hint of racism by waving around the name of an employee of hers whom she insists is “as black as this board,” referring to the backdrop behind her.

Any apology made on her behalf seems to be an attempt to paint her as a mere product of another place and another age, when it was okay to think and say such things. The point this misses is that it not only is unacceptable now, but there should be nothing but deep shame felt for any environment in which it was allowed, ever.

Besides, it’s not like Deen is 170, having grown up in Albany, Georgia during what she feels is slavery’s glorious heyday. She was born in 1947. She was seven when Brown v. Board of Education was decided, 17 when Martin Luther King won the Nobel Peace Prize, and still just 30 when the miniseries “Roots” won nine Emmys, a Golden Globe, and a Peabody Award.

Until yesterday, she had the system wired to play up all the folksy charm of her heritage while smoothing away any rough edges of its horrific historical dark side. She even accomplished one of the most shockingly brazen endorsement deals in the history of modern media – finally getting around to admitting her own diabetes, only to begin shilling for a drug purported to fight the disease. She was stuffing her drooling viewers’ bodies full of excess glucose, only to grab at their money once they talked to their alarmed doctors.

A charade that never really should have been allowed to happen in the first place is finally over. An uneducated, unattractive woman who can’t cook somehow stumbled up to a prime position in American media by pandering successfully to similarly stupid, unhealthy people, aided by TV executives happy to keep cashing their checks.

Paula Deen’s career deserves this kind of embarrassing final chapter, as it was ugly on all levels: the woman, the food, and all the southern imagery evocative of still-discriminatory places and terrible times.

Out of the frying pan, into the fired."

Ouch...

My Grandma always told me if I don’t have anything nice to say don’t say anything at all..She was a nice Irish lady too
 
Ouch...

My Grandma always told me if I don’t have anything nice to say don’t say anything at all..She was a nice Irish lady too

I am somewhat puzzled by the 'pile on' over Paula Deen, especially when there are other public figures that just evade the radar and any accountability for their speech and actions. Paula Deen, being a racist, barely registers when you consider the couched racism of people like Rush Limbaugh, and Pamela Geller...

Does the 'language police' in this country only care and hold responsible the use of the 'N-word' by white people? Well, Paula Deen used more than the 'N-word', but she didn't repeatedly from a radio show burp out the most heinous crap.

Does Paula Deen need to take a fall? Hell yes, but there are other targets of extremism that need to fall on their faces too... Or is racism mixed with sexism, and jingoism somehow more 'nutritious' than racism alone. Intolerance is wrong. Or it isn't...
 
I am somewhat puzzled by the 'pile on' over Paula Deen, especially when there are other public figures that just evade the radar and any accountability for their speech and actions. Paula Deen, being a racist, barely registers when you consider the couched racism of people like Rush Limbaugh, and Pamela Geller...

Does the 'language police' in this country only care and hold responsible the use of the 'N-word' by white people? Well, Paula Deen used more than the 'N-word', but she didn't repeatedly from a radio show burp out the most heinous crap.

Does Paula Deen need to take a fall? Hell yes, but there are other targets of extremism that need to fall on their faces too... Or is racism mixed with sexism, and jingoism somehow more 'nutritious' than racism alone. Intolerance is wrong. Or it isn't...

To me the exaggerated reaction means the lady has made many folks mad, dunno how but that seems to be the only justification.

Intolerance need to be dealt with on an individual basis but society needs to define what is acceptable, I don’t think were there yet.
 
Yeah, like Walmart has the moral high ground to criticize Deen. :rolleyes:

This whole thing is now officially beyond ridiculous. Home Depot, Sears, JC Penney and others have hopped on the "drop Paula Deen" bandwagon. I'm really pissed at those companies right now...and I'm not even a fan of Deen. What a bunch of pompous, self-righteous blowhards.

I don't think these brands care about self righteousness. They care about PR. Paula Deen is a brand in herself. If her brand doesn't sell, they stop using her. Now Wilford Brimley can go back to being the face of "diabeetus".
 
Funny how things gets spun by the media.
This whole deal isn’t about what she said 30 years ago, but about the fact that no company wants to be associated with her because of her past lawsuits that reveal her heavy handed management and, of course her brother Bubba, who seems like a real gem.

The media play this up and they love it. Then the right wing gets agitated because they think it is a veiled attack on them, (which it is) and so they defend Dean which makes them look like racists.

What the real goal is, of course, is to make sure that people fight against each other over meaningless issues while the powers that be destroy ALL of our futures. And the sheeple take the bait every time.
 
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/...cels-show-after-racism-scandal_n_3480517.html

Although I see where Food Network is coming from, I think she should have been given a second chance. Sometimes people need something like this to happen for them to change their stance on something they do.

It isn't about her saying the word, I honestly think just about every white person around here (GA) say it.

It's the actions that accompany it.

Whites only restroom? GTFOH
 
I am Paula Deen’s age and I live in the South. I have not used the N word since I was 6 years old (I heard it at school) and my Irish grandma swatted my bottom for saying it. I was told that words like that do not come out of a lady’s mouth and that Jesus loves all the little children — red and yellow, black and white, they are precious in his sight. I was told to say “colored.”

So this long diatribe that was copied and pasted from another site indicates that the author did indeed use the N-word once a long time ago. Therefore by their logic they deserve to lose whatever job they currently have.
 
So this long diatribe that was copied and pasted from another site indicates that the author did indeed use the N-word once a long time ago. Therefore by their logic they deserve to lose whatever job they currently have.

It's also a videotaped interview, a number of racial comments up to as soon as last year, and tolerating her brother's racist BS at their restaurants. Oh, and her 'Gosh, I'm not a racist' defense. Looking at what she has done, and known better as a public person to do, she should have been exposed years ago.

And now she's using the repeal of Prop 8 to defend herself?

Link here...
 
Well look at it like this:

You overhear me calling my wife a pet name. Something that is intimate between the two of us. Does that mean that you can come up to her and call her what I just called her?

Just because a word is used between a certain group does not mean that someone outside of that group can use the word without expecting some kind of consequence.

Not sure this works. We're talking about a relationship among people that's formed solely because they share the same race.

What I'm saying is, I don't think we should be defending anyone's use of the word.
 
Never say that word

corrected it for you.

I won't get into the lexicon of it. That's a different argument, and I doubt the people in this country, let alone on this planet will understand the difference, especially in the spelling of the word.


Why is it OK for one race to say it but not another? Word's are offensive no matter the skin color of the person saying it.

This. It shouldn't be said by anyone of any race.

Not sure this works. We're talking about a relationship among people that's formed solely because they share the same race.

What I'm saying is, I don't think we should be defending anyone's use of the word.

Again, if those are using it within their race because of the relationship defined due to race, while I understand it is to deface/devalue the word, it's hypocritical. Better to not say it at all than show your hypocrisy.

Full disclosure: I'm Black/Amer. Indian.

BL.
 
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