OK, the scene is fiction. The entire teleplay was fiction. It was based on a fictionalized version of history. Have you ever seen anything on TV that was the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but? Why you should take this little bit as a perfect portrayal and the gospel is simply incomprehensible. And don't think for a minute that there was any intent to portray the key characters in a perfectly representative manner, consistent with actual reality. Context is everything.
When Gates screams at somebody, it's because he (and now his pit bull Ballmer) want to dominate an industry, it's cost, ethics, and law be damned, and it's always been that way with Microsoft. When Jobs does it, it's because he is a freaking perfectionist (not a "psychotic nut case"), and he wants the product being shipped to be the absolutely best possible that can be made at the time with the technology available (and inventing the technology if need be). Try and look into the documented history, involving interviews with people that have actually dealt with them. Yeah, they're both insufferable, but I'd rather take my chances with a visionary than a shark. It's not all about the money, you see.
And I, too have worked for many of the same people you have. Hard drivers who never forgot their people, nit-picking fools trying to hide their own inadequacies, and ring-knockers that had no business in uniform, much less command. I'll take a leader over a manager any day.
That's the reason so many here "drink the Kool-Aid." It's because historically, Microsoft has been about simply dominating every market it decides to enter, with no consideration for the product or consumer or law, where Apple has been about the product first; hardware, software, human interface. Yes, I oversimplify, but even in generalities there is truth.
I've been in & around this industry before it was an industry, when IBM was known more for typewriters, and tubes ruled. I've watched and paid close attention to the rise & fall of a lot of companies, and I've learned a deep distrust of anything out of Redmond, and for good reason. I've managed to lose some love for Apple over the years, too, but not from Day 1.
Look, don't feel like we're ganging up, or just rabid fanboys, or this isn't a great place to get answers, exchange views, and even respectfully disagree. We don't have to change anybody's mind.