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Hieveryone

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A girl wants me to go over to her condo and "bring wine."

Do you think it's safe?

What about inviting her over to my place, would that make it safer or less safe?

I need an opinion, thanks.
 
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Sure, of course.
Just don't remove your facemask, wash your hands every two minutes, keep 6 foot separation.
You'll be fine. I'm sure that both you and the girl will find the process quite enjoyable.
Did you say wine, or whine? That would make a difference, IMHO.
(The girl was joking, eh?)
 
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Do I think it’s safe to not practice social distancing during a global pandemic?

Ehhh, it’s really hard to say because on one hand, there’s the whole pandemic thing, and on the other, there’s your desire to see nondescript condo girl.

But seriously, to continue your “bring wine” metaphor, it might be best to FaceTime each other, pour wine from separate bottles, hold your glasses up to the camera and say “cheers” simultaneously.
 
A girl wants me to go over to her condo and "bring wine."

Do you think it's safe?

What about inviting her over to my place, would that make it safer or less safe?

I need an opinion, thanks.

Some might say that the life without girls and wine is not worth living.
Giving the current situation though, when you take care of yourself, you are really taking care of other people. "Staying safe" is not really about you.
 
The chances are low don’t you think? I’m just seeing 1 girl, it’s a group less than 10 as they say. Just 2...
 
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It takes only one person to get you sick...in the proverbial blink of an eye.

I see.

So basically...if you go over to a girl's condo, drink wine, maybe have some fun...it doesn't matter if it's just 1 person...or 2 people total...

there's still a risk?

And that applies across the board?

Like if I invited a girl over to my condo to eat, drink wine and hangout?
 
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A girl wants me to go over to her condo and "bring wine."

Do you think it's safe?

What about inviting her over to my place, would that make it safer or less safe?

I need an opinion, thanks.
This is a serious question??? I’m thinking not. Chapter 4 of your online social experiment.
Obviously the answer is “no” because you did not include maybe as a choice. :)
 
Any contact with anybody is a risk.

People you don't know well (and thus don't know their travel history/who they associate with) is a higher risk.

Depending on where you are, there may be a reasonable chance she is either an asymptomatic carrier or in the incubation period.

Right now is the time to limit all unnecessary contact with people.

Would you bareback this girl? If the answer is no... well there's more probably COVID19 out there than undiagnosed AIDS at the moment. Well, at least in the first world. And it's a lot more contagious.
 
Any contact with anybody is a risk.

People you don't know well (and thus don't know their travel history/who they associate with) is a higher risk.

Depending on where you are, there may be a reasonable chance she is either an asymptomatic carrier or in the incubation period.

Right now is the time to limit all unnecessary contact with people.

Would you bareback this girl? If the answer is no... well there's more probably COVID19 out there than undiagnosed AIDS at the moment. Well, at least in the first world. And it's a lot more contagious.

I mean I know her, but not like super personal. She's a friend you could say, but we don't talk regularly or anything.

I've been hitting up literally everyone in my contacts just to stay sane. I have a very big network which I have built over the years.

And a couple have been quite friendly, lets just say. One of them just flew back from LA a few days ago, so she's out of the question.

But the one I"m talking about, I don't think has been doing anything. I think she's quarantining.

But not 100% sure of anything
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Mate, this isn't the time to get boogie with it.

Lol...what an awful time. Seriously.

I just felt like if it's ONE person, it might be ok.

But as per some people's opinions, it just depends.

And that's the tough part that I'm trying to figure out.
 
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Hey forget that girl, hang out with us! But seriously, I second the person who said to FaceTime it – maybe you'll be surprised and have an even better time together that way...

OMG I totally want to do that, BUT I LOOK SO UGLY ON THE FT CAMERA UGH!!!!!

I look much better in picture or real life, but for some reason that front facing FT camera just...I look so bad.
 
Lol...what an awful time. Seriously.

I just felt like if it's ONE person, it might be ok.
Here's the thing. If she's currently an active carrier and asymptomatic, it's fine. If she's alone. If she's with you, chances of transmittance is very high. You are, what, 25-30? For all you know you may react horribly to COVID19, despite being young and healthy on paper and lab tests prior to infection. It's a massive gamble, bub.

And now, to DJ the theme song of your week:

 
The chances are low don’t you think? I’m just seeing 1 girl, it’s a group less than 10 as they say. Just 2...
If you definitely know she is also staying away from everyone else, then I think it's ok. But there's no way to know that for sure except about yourself unless you are with the other person 24/7.
 
The chances are low don’t you think? I’m just seeing 1 girl, it’s a group less than 10 as they say. Just 2...
But didn't they say less than 10 people is ok?

It's just 2 people total
So basically...if you go over to a girl's condo, drink wine, maybe have some fun...it doesn't matter if it's just 1 person...or 2 people total...
I just felt like if it's ONE person, it might be ok.
I feel like you're one more repetition away from us all changing our minds and offering to pitch in and buy you the most expensive bottle of wine.
 
Oh my what a thread.
I’m just seeing 1 girl

No. You don't know how many people she has seen. That's where the true risk lies. You can stay quarantined, but if then you meet ONE person that has just attended a hard metal concert at a packed club, then you might be done.

But didn't they say less than 10 people is ok?

No. They don't say that "less than 10 people is ok". They say that since some society needs to work at least to a basic level, if needed, the recommendation is to gather in very small groups. Be mindful that this is not done to really prevent you from getting sick, but it's to be able to track who has been in contact with who.
 
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