I've about had it with having email on 2 devices. I use Gmail and I have my laptop and my iPhone. I'd like to receive a copy of the email on BOTH devices every time I receive one and then DELETE the email FROM THE SERVER when I delete a message. I'm tired of going 2 weeks without touching my iPhone and then the next time I pick it up I have 50 messages, all of which I have read and deleted on my Mac... Why can't anything be as easy as Apple's approach? I'm gritting my teach and on the verge of paying for mobileme.