You can get the icons via this link
http://suavehd.xengi.org/
Then either download the theme or just the icons and SSH them into your phone, replacing icon@2x.png in the /var/stash/Applications/Mobile Safari (or Preferences after Applications for settings) folder with the new icon also named icon@2x.png. I change the name of the default to icon@2x_default.png, then can easily change back when you want just by changing the file names. All the icons you asked about are Suave HD icons.
The home screen dot, you have to download Lockinfo from cydia, and enable it for "Homescreen" - see my screenshot in my last post in this thread for how your settings should read to have the Home page icon. I believe it's Page Indicator set to on that enables this.
Thanks for the guidance, I'm getting the icons and will look into lockinfo but i had some problems with it before.
Anyways how about the transparent dock? and where should I SSH into to place it.
Thanks
AE