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I remember a time when I didn’t obsess over keeping my phone flawless. Back then, it was just a tool — practical, essential, and bound to pick up its share of scratches and dings. I’d throw on a case, sure, but screen protectors? Never felt necessary.

Somewhere along the way, though, a switch flipped. Now, I catch myself obsessing over keeping my gadgets pristine, especially my electronics. Reading through MacRumors threads lately, I realize I'm not alone. It feels like a lot of us here share that mindset — wanting perfect devices, noticing every tiny scratch, chip, or imperfection.

Then there’s my wife. For her, devices are purely tools. A slightly uneven display? A scratch or dent? She barely notices, let alone cares.

Which category do you fall into? Sometimes, I wish I could be a little more like her — less worried, more free.

EDIT: I couldn't find a more appropriate place to post this than in the iphone subforum but request mods to move it where they deem fit.
 
I used to chase the bleeding edge which meant keeping the resale values high and devices pristine.

Now that the markets and myself and maturing. I hold my devices long enough for depreciation to behave as @BeatCrazy describes.

Once you start actually using your devices, your attention is steered away from their objectness.
 
Practical. A "pristine" used iPhone 12 is worth the same as one with normal/moderate wear.

Your car is not flawless, nor are your shoes. Why would a $1K phone be any different?
Well put.

I used to chase the bleeding edge which meant keeping the resale values high and devices pristine.

Now that the markets and myself and maturing. I hold my devices long enough for depreciation to behave as @BeatCrazy describe.

Once you start using your devices, your attention is steered away from their objectness.
I am try to remind myself just that when I go down that path. I dont WANT to obsess over **** because I literally would rather use that time and brain space for something else.
 
It's just a thing. While it's not like I am careless, and I do use a case and screen protector, if the metal or back glass gets scratched up a little, it's no big deal.

I always keep my old phone when I upgrade as a "just in case" backup for the family, so I keep my phones about five years, and a pristine phone after five years has no affect at all on trade-in or resale value.
 
I'll state what I usually state whenever answering the question of "Do you use a case?".

Firstly, I don't want my phone/devices broken. Secondly, I don't want to use a case on any of them. Thirdly, I do not tend to have Applecare. Fourthly, I do not wish to explain to my wife how I broke a ~$1000 device.

How do I make all this square? Well, I developed rules for myself. Rules for where my phone is laid down, how it is picked up and how I handle it. These rules are variable depending on if I'm by myself, with someone else or in a crowd, and where I am.

My choice of lifestyle, activities and career were/are all designed around tech and computers. My devices benefit from that because I am a graphic designer who works from home and sits in front of a computer with multiple monitors all day.

My rules for myself have kept my devices from being gouged, knicked, scratched, screens broken, scratched or cracked, etc. I would put any of my caseless phones next to someone who'd used a case. Pristine no, but my devices look new.

Wear and tear is where I stop. I have no issue with that. Devices are going to pick up microscratches over time. You know what? Only MY device has that pattern of wear and tear. It's a tool and that pattern makes my device personal to me. But based on my rules, you'd have to look hard to find that pattern of wear and tear.

Lastly. I don't sell my devices, so whenever I upgrade, everything I am still keeping is still subject to my rules for myself. Keeps everything good. Essentially, I am fine with wear and tear, but I have rules to avoid damage.

PS. My wife uses a case. Her phone goes tumbling all the time.
 
I used to switch phones a lot because I liked trying out other iPhone models. I always buy them second hand in new condition and sell them after use. So I did use cases in the past for resale value, but for my 13 mini for the first time I planned for many years of use. So out goes the worrying about resale, now I just enjoy using it. No case or screen protector, just a MagSafe wallet, no major wear. 3 years and going strong.
 
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That's a good question for Apple designers.
Let's talk about the AirPods case. Beautiful when pristine, impossible to keep scratch-less (even with a case).

It infuriates me when designers choose the wrong materials for a product. Or low quality ones.
When a product is well designed and with the correct materials, it will be in a pristine state if used with normal care.
 
I always use a case, my favorite is Otterbox Symmetry. I don't use a screen protector. I'm reasonably careful how I carry it, not handle it with dirty grimy hands, but not paranoid. I've been lucky most times.
 
I try to find a middle ground. I get Applecare on all my devices, which means eventually I can get them replaced or their shells and displays replaced so they are back to pristine condition (if I ever need/want it).
And I try not to obsess, especially with bumping my MBP against stuff, which unfortunately happens more than I'd like.

My iPhone is in a case right now but only because I want to accessorize it for video, otherwise I'd use it naked.
 
Keeping a device pristine by always keeping it in a case and covering it with a screen protector defeats the purpose, to me. If that’s the intended mode of use, they might as well make the phone more rugged in the first place. Since I like my devices light and unencumbered, not hiding what is nice about their design, I leave them naked, with whatever consequences that entails.
 
I'll state what I usually state whenever answering the question of "Do you use a case?".

Firstly, I don't want my phone/devices broken. Secondly, I don't want to use a case on any of them. Thirdly, I do not tend to have Applecare. Fourthly, I do not wish to explain to my wife how I broke a ~$1000 device.

How do I make all this square? Well, I developed rules for myself. Rules for where my phone is laid down, how it is picked up and how I handle it. These rules are variable depending on if I'm by myself, with someone else or in a crowd, and where I am.

My choice of lifestyle, activities and career were/are all designed around tech and computers. My devices benefit from that because I am a graphic designer who works from home and sits in front of a computer with multiple monitors all day.

My rules for myself have kept my devices from being gouged, knicked, scratched, screens broken, scratched or cracked, etc. I would put any of my caseless phones next to someone who'd used a case. Pristine no, but my devices look new.

Wear and tear is where I stop. I have no issue with that. Devices are going to pick up microscratches over time. You know what? Only MY device has that pattern of wear and tear. It's a tool and that pattern makes my device personal to me. But based on my rules, you'd have to look hard to find that pattern of wear and tear.

Lastly. I don't sell my devices, so whenever I upgrade, everything I am still keeping is still subject to my rules for myself. Keeps everything good. Essentially, I am fine with wear and tear, but I have rules to avoid damage.

PS. My wife uses a case. Her phone goes tumbling all the time.
You have to tell me your rules lol. I want to use my phone without a case but afraid that I'll manage to somehow damage it really bad.
 
When I buy something new I usually try to keep it looking pristine until the inevitable wear and tear starts to show, at which point I stop caring and just use it. My iPhone 14 pro for example. I enjoyed the sleek flat sides, matte glass back, and new oleophobic coating for a while, but it didn’t take long for the screen to get covered in micro scratches from sliding in and out of my pockets, the sides became smeared with fingerprints, the paint on the top worn off (also from being pocketed I presume), and the battery health plummeted below 90%. And now, the lightning port no longer works, so I’m limited to wireless charging, which I despise. I don’t use a case, and rarely drop my phone.

Tldr, enjoy it while it’s new, because it won’t be for long.
 
I take good care of my devices, but I am not obsessed with regular wear and tear. I keep my phones 6-7 years, and it’s gonna have some minor wear and tear. At the end of the day, these devices are tools. I dont let them affect my life. I rotate between case and no case every day.
 
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When I buy something new I usually try to keep it looking pristine until the inevitable wear and tear starts to show, at which point I stop caring and just use it. My iPhone 14 pro for example. I enjoyed the sleek flat sides, matte glass back, and new oleophobic coating for a while, but it didn’t take long for the screen to get covered in micro scratches from sliding in and out of my pockets, the sides became smeared with fingerprints, the paint on the top worn off (also from being pocketed I presume), and the battery health plummeted below 90%. And now, the lightning port no longer works, so I’m limited to wireless charging, which I despise. I don’t use a case, and rarely drop my phone.

Tldr, enjoy it while it’s new, because it won’t be for long.
damn I'd love to be like that. How long will you keep your 14 pro?
 
You have to tell me your rules lol. I want to use my phone without a case but afraid that I'll manage to somehow damage it really bad.
Sure…I'll try and remember them all.

I try to adhere to the following…

• Always use two hands when working with the phone. One handed to answer calls is okay. I text with two hands (one to hold the phone, the other to type).

• Always have a designated spot to set the device down on. I use business card holders on my desk and on my night stand. In the car, my phone goes in the center console cupholder or the center console itself if both cupholders are being used. If you're out, and there are no designated spots (say a restaurant), then unless there is a clean spot, something will go under the device (like a napkin). Otherwise, it stays in a pocket or resting under your thigh. When I was still working at the office, I had a business card holder there for my phone too.

• Transferring your device from a pocket to your hand or a designated spot, or vice-versa is when it's in the most danger. Most people drop their phones during this maneuver. Never let go of the device until you are sure it's secure (I've missed a pocket a few times).

• Put the device away when in crowds. Short of an emergency phone call or text, there is NOTHING worth having your phone jostled out of your hand. If you must use it, stand out of the way if you can. If you can't, protect it with your hands. In certain crowd situations I will actually cradle my phone with both hands to protect it.

• If you need to do something with your phone while out, make sure you're in a space where you won't get jostled and that you aren't trying to do more than one thing at once. I almost dropped my phone once because I was trying to push a grocery card and check an email. I forcefully made myself stop, pulled the cart over to the side and then with two hands checked my phone. You need to know when NOT to proceed with an action that may endanger your phone.

• Identify any potential hazards to your phone in your current environment. For instance, we have leather chairs in our house. I don't set my phone down on the arms of those chairs because leather is slippery and the phone can slide off.

• Pay attention. If you are under the influence of an OTC or prescription drug that makes you drowsy, force yourself to concentrate on what you're doing with your device. I've dropped two phones this way because I had taken an antihistamine and was not paying attention.

And this is the tricky one.

• Become spatially aware of where your phone is relative to your body, your hands, etc and it's orientation. If you know where your phone is in the space around you and how it is oriented you can (hopefully) avoid smacking it into things or having it smacked out of your hand(s).

Lastly…and this one was hard for me to learn. If the phone is starting to drop, do NOT be afraid to put your fingerprints ALL OVER the screen to prevent it from dropping! I hated fingerprints on my screen, but I decided that it's much easier to wipe off fingerprints and save my phone then it is to replace it.

The entire point of all this is to be thinking about your phone and any danger to it. Anticipate danger, be proactive in protecting your device. Most people do NOT want to think this way. It's exactly why a lot of case users use cases. It's intense focus and concentration, and until you get it down where it becomes second nature you'll question why you aren't using a case instead.

But eventually it does become second nature and you'll find that you are instinctively protecting your device

If I can remember any more 'rules', I'll come back and post them.
 
Sure…I'll try and remember them all.

I try to adhere to the following…

• Always use two hands when working with the phone. One handed to answer calls is okay. I text with two hands (one to hold the phone, the other to type).

• Always have a designated spot to set the device down on. I use business card holders on my desk and on my night stand. In the car, my phone goes in the center console cupholder or the center console itself if both cupholders are being used. If you're out, and there are no designated spots (say a restaurant), then unless there is a clean spot, something will go under the device (like a napkin). Otherwise, it stays in a pocket or resting under your thigh. When I was still working at the office, I had a business card holder there for my phone too.

• Transferring your device from a pocket to your hand or a designated spot, or vice-versa is when it's in the most danger. Most people drop their phones during this maneuver. Never let go of the device until you are sure it's secure (I've missed a pocket a few times).

• Put the device away when in crowds. Short of an emergency phone call or text, there is NOTHING worth having your phone jostled out of your hand. If you must use it, stand out of the way if you can. If you can't, protect it with your hands. In certain crowd situations I will actually cradle my phone with both hands to protect it.

• If you need to do something with your phone while out, make sure you're in a space where you won't get jostled and that you aren't trying to do more than one thing at once. I almost dropped my phone once because I was trying to push a grocery card and check an email. I forcefully made myself stop, pulled the cart over to the side and then with two hands checked my phone. You need to know when NOT to proceed with an action that may endanger your phone.

• Identify any potential hazards to your phone in your current environment. For instance, we have leather chairs in our house. I don't set my phone down on the arms of those chairs because leather is slippery and the phone can slide off.

• Pay attention. If you are under the influence of an OTC or prescription drug that makes you drowsy, force yourself to concentrate on what you're doing with your device. I've dropped two phones this way because I had taken an antihistamine and was not paying attention.

And this is the tricky one.

• Become spatially aware of where your phone is relative to your body, your hands, etc and it's orientation. If you know where your phone is in the space around you and how it is oriented you can (hopefully) avoid smacking it into things or having it smacked out of your hand(s).

Lastly…and this one was hard for me to learn. If the phone is starting to drop, do NOT be afraid to put your fingerprints ALL OVER the screen to prevent it from dropping! I hated fingerprints on my screen, but I decided that it's much easier to wipe off fingerprints and save my phone then it is to replace it.

The entire point of all this is to be thinking about your phone and any danger to it. Anticipate danger, be proactive in protecting your device. Most people do NOT want to think this way. It's exactly why a lot of case users use cases. It's intense focus and concentration, and until you get it down where it becomes second nature you'll question why you aren't using a case instead.

But eventually it does become second nature and you'll find that you are instinctively protecting your device

If I can remember any more 'rules', I'll come back and post them.
I can’t decide if this is nuts lol I’d rather just also a case and be done at this point
 
Hehe I have sold my iPhone when it got scratches, to buy exactly the same one again (if that made sense, in relation to when the next model came out) - I used my iPhone without a case, but with a sleeve, which protected it in my pocket, or when it was on a table or the like. But I operated it without a cover, and sometimes those iPhones can be slippery.

Today I have a cover on my iPhone, and my AirPods (the case), and I don't care that much anymore, as I feel my devices are well protected. I am still hysterical about imperfections on NEW devices, however - when I open an iPhone box for the first time, and see a small scratch in the frame, it is sent back, and exchanged for a new one. If it also has scratches, it goes back too. But it has more to do with the fact that I don't want to accept paying a premium price, and then receiving a product that has not been quality tested properly.

Most people would have probably just accepted it, or maybe not even seen the scratch, or just thought a cover was needed anyway.
 
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I can’t decide if this is nuts lol I’d rather just also a case and be done at this point
:D

Like I said, most people don't want to do this level of thinking. They'll just use a case. For me, I just eventually internalized it all. Why? Because I hate cases, even slim ones. But I don't have the financial security to be careless and so some of these rules I had to learn for myself the hard way. My iPhone 5, in particular, got dropped quite a lot until I learned.
 
Sure…I'll try and remember them all.

I try to adhere to the following…

• Always use two hands when working with the phone. One handed to answer calls is okay. I text with two hands (one to hold the phone, the other to type).

• Always have a designated spot to set the device down on. I use business card holders on my desk and on my night stand. In the car, my phone goes in the center console cupholder or the center console itself if both cupholders are being used. If you're out, and there are no designated spots (say a restaurant), then unless there is a clean spot, something will go under the device (like a napkin). Otherwise, it stays in a pocket or resting under your thigh. When I was still working at the office, I had a business card holder there for my phone too.

• Transferring your device from a pocket to your hand or a designated spot, or vice-versa is when it's in the most danger. Most people drop their phones during this maneuver. Never let go of the device until you are sure it's secure (I've missed a pocket a few times).

• Put the device away when in crowds. Short of an emergency phone call or text, there is NOTHING worth having your phone jostled out of your hand. If you must use it, stand out of the way if you can. If you can't, protect it with your hands. In certain crowd situations I will actually cradle my phone with both hands to protect it.

• If you need to do something with your phone while out, make sure you're in a space where you won't get jostled and that you aren't trying to do more than one thing at once. I almost dropped my phone once because I was trying to push a grocery card and check an email. I forcefully made myself stop, pulled the cart over to the side and then with two hands checked my phone. You need to know when NOT to proceed with an action that may endanger your phone.

• Identify any potential hazards to your phone in your current environment. For instance, we have leather chairs in our house. I don't set my phone down on the arms of those chairs because leather is slippery and the phone can slide off.

• Pay attention. If you are under the influence of an OTC or prescription drug that makes you drowsy, force yourself to concentrate on what you're doing with your device. I've dropped two phones this way because I had taken an antihistamine and was not paying attention.

And this is the tricky one.

• Become spatially aware of where your phone is relative to your body, your hands, etc and it's orientation. If you know where your phone is in the space around you and how it is oriented you can (hopefully) avoid smacking it into things or having it smacked out of your hand(s).

Lastly…and this one was hard for me to learn. If the phone is starting to drop, do NOT be afraid to put your fingerprints ALL OVER the screen to prevent it from dropping! I hated fingerprints on my screen, but I decided that it's much easier to wipe off fingerprints and save my phone then it is to replace it.

The entire point of all this is to be thinking about your phone and any danger to it. Anticipate danger, be proactive in protecting your device. Most people do NOT want to think this way. It's exactly why a lot of case users use cases. It's intense focus and concentration, and until you get it down where it becomes second nature you'll question why you aren't using a case instead.

But eventually it does become second nature and you'll find that you are instinctively protecting your device

If I can remember any more 'rules', I'll come back and post them.

Whatever works you, but that’s quite ridiculous.
 
Whatever works you, but that’s quite ridiculous.
I have dropped exactly two phones sufficiently to merit replacement within the last 13 years. Both times it was because I was not paying attention.

Every phone I have right now is in good condition with no nicks, dents, scuffs, cracked or broken screens or any other physical damage except for normal wear and tear (like microscratches).

There are case users who can't match this.

So, it may be ridiculous to you, but it's working for me. And it's automatic now. I just do it. I don't have to think about it anymore.

Lastly, I was asked. I don't force my rules on anyone else other than myself.
 
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I remember a time when I didn’t obsess over keeping my phone flawless. Back then, it was just a tool — practical, essential, and bound to pick up its share of scratches and dings. I’d throw on a case, sure, but screen protectors? Never felt necessary.

Somewhere along the way, though, a switch flipped. Now, I catch myself obsessing over keeping my gadgets pristine, especially my electronics. Reading through MacRumors threads lately, I realize I'm not alone. It feels like a lot of us here share that mindset — wanting perfect devices, noticing every tiny scratch, chip, or imperfection.

Then there’s my wife. For her, devices are purely tools. A slightly uneven display? A scratch or dent? She barely notices, let alone cares.

Which category do you fall into? Sometimes, I wish I could be a little more like her — less worried, more free.

EDIT: I couldn't find a more appropriate place to post this than in the iphone subforum but request mods to move it where they deem fit.
I agree with your wife: "For her, devices are purely tools. A slightly uneven display? A scratch or dent? She barely notices, let alone cares."
 
:D

Like I said, most people don't want to do this level of thinking. They'll just use a case. For me, I just eventually internalized it all. Why? Because I hate cases, even slim ones. But I don't have the financial security to be careless and so some of these rules I had to learn for myself the hard way. My iPhone 5, in particular, got dropped quite a lot until I learned.
iPhone 5 was more than a decade ago. Modern iPhones are tough enough even to do without cases. iPhone 5 badly needed a case.
 
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