first if this has been answered in one of the many threads, I apologize because I have read many but can't find an answer. so here goes. I have an iPad and iPhone both with ios5...now I have had a iMessage conversation with someone that has the ipad2 with ios5 but her iPhone is not updated. when I send imessages it is sent but to her ipad(which she doesn't carry on her) but I want to simply send text message but in order to do that I have to have a second conversation. how can you eliminate the need for two conversations? please help.