I will do a 2 SSD setup.. one with Windows; the other with Mac OS X. I will also use a 2 HD setup for all media and games.
(Question... I want to get the Mac Pro Raid Card... but it says I can not with SSDs installed...... can someone explain it to me.)
DON'T get the Apple RAID card!
Considering your earlier post, you've got no idea what RAID really is and what to use it for (no offense, just getting the facts right).
Don't just get it because it sounds fancy and is expensive.
Don't get me wrong, there is absolutely nothing wrong with RAID (actually it's pretty darn good

), but your setup doesn't ask for a RAID and especially not for a hardware RAID with the Apple RAID card.
You're saying your want to get two SSD's, one for Win, one for OS X.
Good so far.
A two disk data disc setup is also all right. If you want to RAID these drives, though, you WON'T be able to use the created partition with both Windows and OS X.
Seriously, if you don't really know what to use RAID for and especially why to use it, don't use it. For two operating systems that want to share data, a RAID isn't going to work. So keep the drives separated and you're good to go.