Mixed is (for example) 2 Gb + 1 Gb where matched (for example) is 2 Gb + 2 Gb. Manufacturer doesn't matter as long as the chips are the same spec it will count as matched. For most people, 2 Gb is enough, but if you are editing HD videos in iMovie or something on the more intensive side of computing, 4 Gb would add a little speed.