I had issues with the touchpad when I had Monterey installed, swiping back on a webpage didn't work, pinch to zoom didn't work, etc.. A few other minor issues that I can't remember now.
I downgraded back to Big Sur, and it works perfectly. I saw a youtube video that compared benchmark performance on the same machine, first running Big Sur, then he upgraded to Monterey and ran the same tests and there was a marginal performance increase with MOnterey, (like 1625 to 1640) but the average user will never notice that kind of performance difference while doing average tasks.
So, I'm in the same boat - convince my why it's a good idea to upgrade. I monitor a few threads here on macrumors regarding issues with Monterey, and I still see people having touch pad issues and a few other things.
long story short, at this point, sorry that's a no for me dawg.