I don't blame Apple, but does any company have a better track record than Apple in supporting legacy hardware? Yeah, I think honestly, some do.
Microsoft enabled all the Zune 2 features on the original Zune via an update. They're even the same company that went out of their way to make USB bluetooth dongles available so that their bluetooth keyboards and mice could be usable on Windows PCs that didn't have them.
I'm not saying I want to go back to Windows. I'm just saying that, yes, companies differ on what they offer to their customers. This particular thing is not a strength of Apple's.