please can sombody tell me how to resize their bootcamp partition and is it possible to use a 3rd party windows program to resize the partitions.
Assuming you mean without blowing away the Windows installation on it, I was able to do that successfully yesterday with Partition Magic 8 within Windows. I haven't had luck with Leopard's Disk Utility, though, because it can't dynamically resize non-OS X formatted disks (and can't touch NTFS at all other than to reformat). So I'd suggest trying Partition Magic.
Can you use the free trial to resize it?