Same, a switch would be nice for that. But apparently they made the button more obvious, which should at least improve on the beatsX button quite a bit. It would always take me a few seconds to find the beatsX button by feel, and then it was difficult to know if I pressed it successfully. Worst button ever. They wanted it to have that streamlined look, but didn’t think much about usability.
That’s funny because the wire is exactly why I want the beats flex. As I go about my home all day (wfh) it lets me drop the earbuds out of my ears, do my thing, and put them back in quickly, no hassle, countless times a day. Having to carry a case with me, fish it out of my pocket, pull the earbuds out and stick each one in, put it back in my pocket—then the reverse—every time... that would get tiresome after probably the 15th time in one day. That might be fine if you only do it a handful of times per day, but I am doing it constantly. (And if you don’t put them in the case you only get 4 or 5 hours battery life, which is only about 40% the battery life of the flex.) Also for myself, I hate carrying things in my pocket. And sometimes I don’t even have pockets so that’s a big problem right there. The neck band also lets me change the volume remotely without speaking out loud to Siri, which can be undesirable in many situations. And all else being equal, touch controls are actually a worse experience than buttons in my opinion. People seem to think the neck band/wire is a big hindrance. I never even notice it, and forget it’s there all the time.
As far as sound quality and ANC, I’m sure you know there is a $200 price difference between the AirPods Pro and beats flex, so it’s bewildering why you’d ask why people don’t just go for the 5x more expensive headphones. That aside, I would probably pay for all the features if they were offered in the flex form factor. But for me, the headphones mainly fill a very utilitarian role, so great sound quality is not terribly important. I have different wireless headphones for when I need great sound, and they are quite a bit better than AirPods Pro.