Unfortunately, Apple is forcing me to do it their way by actively denying me use of any other service (iToner, etc).
Now, if I could send Apple 98 cents for each ringtone on my phone that they don't offer on the iTunes Store period, much less as a downloadable ringtone, and then flag that ringtone as "valid" so each update to iTunes would't destroy it, I'd be more then happy to do that because money isn't the issue - choice is.
I was referring to the product as a whole. Nobody put a gun to your head and made you to buy an iPhone. You chose to buy a product from a company known for providing hardware with integrated and highly proprietary software. If what you wanted was a highly customizable gadget, there was every indication that Apple is not in the business of making and distributing such products.
Sure I don't like the fact that Lexus uses Toyota parts (imagine that) but you know what? I won't buy a Lexus for that reason... They're overpriced Toyotas.
What if I didn't like the user interface of the iPod Nano? Should I complain that Apple's holding me hostage?
NO. Don't buy the friggin' product, or accept the limitations that go with it. You just "had" to have an iPhone... why?
Choice is the issue? Absolutely right it is... You had a choice not to buy an iPhone. At the time it was released they never promised ringtones. Nor did they ever promise that you could make your own for free from any song you wished. If you were dumb enough to buy it based on what you think it should have, and then it didn't live up to your imaginary specs, that's not Apple's fault... that's yours.
But for argument's sake let me add this:
That Apple doesn't help the hackers figure out how to circumvent their new firmware isn't active denial of anything... it's just Apple not helping third parties circumvent the agreements that Apple has with the copyright holders of material sold at retail (iTMS) by Apple. Apple has no contractual or moral obligation to help protect the interests of hackers who are too impatient and stupid to appeal to Apple in the only way the recording industry responds to... with their pocketbooks.
People successfully brought "Family Guy" back on the air with their pocketbooks... They bought copies of Family Guy on DVD by the droves. Fox wasn't interested at all in resurrecting the series until they saw dollar signs. They don't care how many times you bitch on a message board, or how many letters you write... it's not until you speak with your pocketbook that companies listen. That's the reality of it whether you like it or not.
It's not Apple's fault that self-interested hackers (and don't give me the bs that they have some altruistic agenda at heart... their primary concern is their own convenience) do not understand this very basic principle of commerce.