Having sincerely tried to use the late versions of iTunes to simply add or remove songs for my iPhone4, and fed up with lengthy unwanted synching operations, I am looking for a simple alternative, a program like old, old iTunes where I can just drag and drop stuff from/to an iPhone from my Mac. So much unwanted crap music had somehow found its way on to my iPhone that I decided recently just to erase everything and start over. After the initial success of directly removing all songs, I opened iTunes (12.1), selected an audiobook that I did want, nothing else, and hit synch. Then I looked on my iPhone and two additional songs had suddenly appeared (one of them, appropriately titled "I Feel Possessed" by Tim and Neil Finn. So I give up...you win, Steve even if you are dead. I just want to be able to simply and manually control what is on my iPhone (like I could back in the early iPod days). Any software that will do this?