I have some thoughts on the discussions here that I would like to share.
1. I was pretty unhappy with the MBPr when it first came out but I have really become a convert. My MBPr has been a workhorse since I received it and I feel it is probably the best workstation I have ever used.
2. If you look at my attachment you will see I really use my MBPr for work. This is a typical day of usage for me app wise. I am currently doing a lot of development work and using two VMs (Parallels and VMWare at the same time).
3. I think there is a big difference between lag and stutter. My MBPr does stutter from time to time when I am swapping between spaces/mission control. This has gotten much better since the MBPr launch and I don't really notice it. Given the apps that I'm using, the memory I'm consuming, and the data being read/written, I find this all to be within acceptable range. Again, I find the MBPr to be a real workhorse of a workstation.
I have not seen any Lag since 10.8.0 and even then that was a bit rare.
4. Drivers, drivers, drivers... I also like to play games via boot camp from time to time. Skyrim, Rage, etc... I have found the graphics via boot camp to have improved with each revision of the Nvidia driver updates. Much more than I thought a driver would give me.
I believe that Apple's OS X driver is quite old at this point. I believe they are still using a driver from early summer (maybe). To add some credit to this claim, Aspyr's COD:BO port also talks about driver features that they are waiting for before they recommend any MBPr owner purchase their game. (It is on their site if you do not believe me)
I suspect that Apple might have been waiting for Nvidia to certify their latest driver (30x-ish) before updating the driver on OS X. I can't tell you how much better I think OS X would become if it received graphic driver updates the way Windows does. I think it would solve many problems...
5. I also believe that those of us who use the MBPr day in and out just get used to any slight stuttering that may occur so it doesn't stand out. I think the performance far outweighs this issue.
Note:
My first MBPr had a Samsung screen but a chip next to the trackpad so I sent it back. The one I have now is perfect with an LG screen. Having had both I kinda lean towards the LG screen as I think the color is much richer but it could also be me. Also, no bad pixels and no ir issues.
I make my living off my MBPr so I wouldn't give you bad advice here...
-P