QED. Use Automator - it's the only way that I know of. It's a two-item Workflow.
Open Automator. Create a workflow. You'll only use the Actions>Files & Folders Actions - navigate there. Double-click "Get Specified Finder Items", then the "Add" button. In the dialog window navigate to the upper-level folder you want to target (like "Documents" or "Library" or your hard drive - you can also add multiple target folders by repeating the "Add" function).
Close all of your Finder windows. Find the folder that has settings that you prefer. Open that folder, and open the View Settings panel. Click on the "Use as Defaults" button - do not close that folder or the View Settings panel as you'll want to reference those View Settings in the Action below.
Then double-click the "Set Folder Views" Action. Configure the folder settings in this Action to your liking by setting the View type (pull-down menu) and other settings below the pull-down menu. Now - check the "Apply Changes to Sub-folders" option checkbox.
Save your Workflow, and choose the Run command (Command-R). You can reuse and/or edit this Workflow as you see fit or as your tastes change.
One more step - buy me a beer. 😀