It drives me absolutely nuts when website FORCE their mobile version on me when I'm using my iPhone. So, in response, I stop using those sites. Permanently. (Or until I hear they've stopped forcing the mobile version on iPhones.)
The iPhone and iPad are NOT a Blackberry or Nokia. Those websites can stick their mobile versions up their tush!
Reader and Docs still have problems even after you override the mobile settfings. If you try to edit a Docs file, it won't let you. Goes to the mobile document display every time. In Reader the panes don't scroll. Unfortunately I don't thing Google really cares. I'm looking for alternatives to Google.