iI got snes9x and i want to connect my computer to my girlfriends to play two player and the directions for it says... "First, both players must decide what game to play. Open it normally and then press escape or click the mouse to stop the game. Then, one player must choose "Host" and the other should choose "Join." The host can choose the network typeAppleTalk or TCP/IPand game name. The joining player should enter the Internet address (if TCP/IP) or choose the SNES game from the list (if AppleTalk). If there are no problems connecting, you should be able to play two-player games together until one of the players stops the game. The host plays as player 1 and the joining player is player 2." there is a drop down list for snes9x that says "Netplay" and then it says "Server" and "Client"...where do i find "Join" and "Host"...i dont know what to do... do i connect differently? Please help me if you can... thanks.