It was either iFixit or maybe XLR8 that tried it when it first came out -- same problems as the slightly older MBPs -- 8 GB was recognized, but the system slowed down dramatically when > 4 GB were addressed.
I have a hypothesis that I'd love to test if I could get my hands on a SR MacBook. I suspect that OS X sees 8 gb of RAM and 256 (or 512) mb of vRAM on a MBP and sums them. This breaks the 8 gb barrier and leads to the poor performance. Windows doesn't do this because the vRAM is automatically subtracted from available RAM (i.e., memory penalty). If I could find a SR MB I'd put my two 4 gb sticks in it to test my hypothesis. But alas, I know no one who has one.