I actually met her last night. I set up a college get together with all the college students that go to our church. It was pretty much me just taking initiative and getting something planned back in march for last night. I don't want to be looking in too deep, but my mom told me that she had talked to another friend's mom about how she was excited for the party and what not and that she was glad that I got something together. (earlier this week) I finally met her last night, talking about different things, my fraternity, If I know anyone she knows that goes to my school, etc. It was a group of people, so we were talking about different things, and it seemed that most of the stuff I mentioned that was funny/humiliating(not humiliating at the moment, an example would be me dressing up as a woman at relay for life) to me, she laughed at. When she left, she hugged me and thanked me a lot for having the party and was up to do more stuff this summer. I had mentioned busch gardens on memorial day and she was all over that. It's gonna be a group going, not just me and her. I want to get to know her more and what not, but I don't want to take it to the point where she knows that I like her, because it would put me in an awkward situation imo.(I'll be the youth intern at my church(middle and high school)) I do want to ask her out, it's just that when would be a good time if it turns out to be the case? any advice?