Hopefully someone can help me. Yesterday I sold my iP4. Before I sold it I backed up my 4 in itunes, went to At&t, got a new sim for my 3GS and had it activated. I took it home, plugged into itunes and it asked me if I wanted to "RESTORE from iP4 backup, or Set up as new phone". I did a restore from backup and it told me I couldn't restore because the phone had to be updated 1st. So I updated to 4.3.5 and everything went perfect. Heres the problem, now it only gives me the option to update software (which says it's up to date) or Restore. No option to restore that backup, and ALL my contacts are gone. What can I do? I have an new imac but the address book is empty. I never checked it on the mac but I thought itunes would back up to the address book automatically..Apparently it didn't. Im sure I screwed up somewhere but I just don't know where. I was thinking time machine but like I said, my address book was empty so I don't think it would do any good? If there are any tricks to get them back I would REALLY, REALLY appreciate it. I had a ton of contacts that would really suck to lose. And for future, How do I make sure my iphone contacts syncs with address book on my mac? ---------- Oh, and one more thing...Not that it's a big deal at all because 3GS is only temp. But, now that I am running 4.3.5, shouldn't I have the added text and ring tones that were added a while back? All I have are the old standards. Agian, No big deal but just thought it was weird.