I think for real peace of mind it might be good to get the Apple SSD. I bought a 15" MBP pro recently, with the 128gb SSD upgrade. I recently swapped in a 256gb C300, and all is fine, although from reading around it looks like I might have been lucky. A lot of 2011 MBPs have had problems with Sata3 (6gb/s) drives (it may be just the very early ones though, mine is 5 weeks old).
Incidentally, about TRIM. You're right, when I had Apple's 128gb SSD installed, TRIM was enabled. Now I have the C300 in, it says it's not. However, I've read that drives like the C300 have their own garbage collection which is pretty much as good. Mine still seems to be super fast, and I saw an article that tested this drive on OSX with no TRIM, and the performance didn't degrade over time.
There is a fix to enable TRIM in 10.6.7 floating around, a modified kext from lion I think. I've read people have had success with it. But as long as my drive keeps working fast (I'll run a benchmark every so often), I'll leave it be.