Ok, I borrowed my friends Plantronics 855 to try. Here is my question: I was using it to make a call, I ended my call and placed the bluetooth in my cupholder. Well, I got a bunch of e-mails and texts but never heard them come in because all my system sounds were going to the bluetooth. Is there any way to make the bluetooth disconnect from my phone so I can tell when texts are coming in etc.? The plantronics worked great for phone calls and I loved it for ipod etc. But I really need it to disconnect so I can hear the system sounds. I tried a few work arounds, which were turning bluetooth off on my phone - this sucked because when a call came in it was too cumbersome to turn bluetooth back on to use the bluetooth. I also tried turning off the bluetooth device in between calls, but this sucked too because it takes too long to turn it back on. Sorry for the long rant - can anyone help me with this issue?? What do you guys do???