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system prefs> notifications

I'm thinking their may be a setting there to stop it. but I'm not certain.
 
Control-Click (Right-click) in the High Sierra banner in App Store for High Sierra. Select Hide Update.
Next in System Preferences > App Store, uncheck Download newly available updates in the background.
 
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