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wow - there are some people that are really touchy about people being homeschooled :eek:

anyhew, it works wonders in some families, and in others, it shouldn't be done. def. not one of those things you can make a blanket statement with.

and for those of you who really think its messed up, just think of it this way: you start home-schooling a child the day they're born. you just keep doing it instead of having someone else do it :)

i've seen some home-schoolers that are perceived as strange, because they acted different. there was this one in my freshman year of college that people would constantly make fun of, because he stayed up late at night doing homework, got up at 4:30 in the mornings, went out for a 5 mile jog, and would get back in time to get ready for classes. He was the kind of guy that would literally drop anything he was doing to do something stupid for someone else - like he'd be in the middle of a project and would stop doing it because someone would ask him to get them a napkin, when they were 2 feet away from it. the sad thing was, they thought he was the one who needed help, because he acted differently *sigh*.

sorry. after being around him for about 3 months, i realized how stupid it was for us (i had issues with him at first too) to criticize him for the way he acted, when he was the one who had such a heart to help others, and was willing to sacrifice for others. and himself. never seen anyone who would go for a jog alone in downtown flint at 4:00-4:30 in the morning for several miles :)

anyhew, sorry if i rambled, but i guess my point was, we may look at people different, and think they're strange because of the way they act, but maybe we're the ones that are strange?

<on topic> if you can handle homeschooling, cool. its a great way to actually know your kids growing up, and a good opportunity for them to get a custom education. if you aren't the kind of person who can handle that (and there are a lot of us out there like that - its not easy homeschooling), then don't do it. works for some, but not all...
 
I remembered I have a far better post on public/home schooling and the social aspects of them. It can be found here-
https://forums.macrumors.com/threads/72579/

Also, though I doubt they will come out of the woodwork again, I invite anyone else who would like to make broad sweeping "home schooling is a horrible thing"-esk posts to post again or PM me so we can sort out why you think we (or perhaps our parents) are the devil.
Come on, I dear ya ;)

-Tyler

edit- in the link, the posts are # 17, 18, and 19.
 
mkaake said:
i've seen some home-schoolers that are perceived as strange, because they acted different. there was this one in my freshman year of college that people would constantly make fun of, because he stayed up late at night doing homework, got up at 4:30 in the mornings, went out for a 5 mile jog, and would get back in time to get ready for classes. He was the kind of guy that would literally drop anything he was doing to do something stupid for someone else - like he'd be in the middle of a project and would stop doing it because someone would ask him to get them a napkin, when they were 2 feet away from it. the sad thing was, they thought he was the one who needed help, because he acted differently *sigh*.

Oh GREAT. You described me to the T. Except for the whole jogging bit. You'll find me dropping my PB out a window before I go on a 4am jog... Especially in Spokane WA!

Wish me luck on my freshmen year. May my hall have as much incite as you do :)

Tyler
 
There are too many things to say on this thread. The truth is, until you have children, you don't know what you will do.

I now tell mine about how they can't do crap " under my roof!"

I have 3 daughters, each completely different from the other, except one thing-they are loved completely by their parents! How I "love" my children varies from making them do their homework and clean their room-to-cozying up on the couch for a one on one conversation of their chosing.

I have struggled with homeschooling or not-ended up building a house in the best scoring school zone. BUT LETS NOT DELUDE OURSELVES, most, not all, get a vast education at home-even if it is what NOT to do.

All encompasing statements in posts as best or worst show how tiny our worlds get when we live infront of a computer screen. Those of you in crapy schools with one great teacher are sometimes better off than a great scoring school with indifferent teachers.

The zone we are in now is very affluent, these kids are pushed by parents and peers to the point the teacher has little to do to get the kid to learn.

In our last zone, the kids had parents that worked day and night to supply food, shelter, clothes and beer-they were less able to assist their kids day to day. But the lesson of education and hardwork is wrapped around these kids everyday. The fact is, we had better teachers at the worst zone elem school. GOD bless those teachers, who actually care about the education they provide. It seems the upper crust zone teachers we have now, know (in our local experience) they can be lazy cause the kid is gonna get it from HOME. It is home school by default.

Don't let ignorance cloud your views, home schooled kids learn or don't like institutionalized ones. It is a 3 legged stool-the kid, the teacher, the parents. Take one away and it falls over.

Home schools can be a unibomber too, but most don't end up doing the Dylan Klebold/Eric Harris thing either.

God bless our DIVERSITY :)
 
The Shooting

I remember the columbine high school shooting a few years ago and I remember the news media kept pressing the reason of the boy's freak show was b/c they were playing DOOM. Gimmie a serious break. First of all, even at that time, DOOM came out like 9 years earlier so they wouldn't be playin it... Second... its all about family values.. Not how many monsters you see and blast to pieces. :eek:
 
I don't think it is as "anti-social" to home school as it once was... It's very common now, and much more accepted... Often a few times a week they have meetings and/or sporting events (gym) that encourage socialization. It's not sitting in the garage and reading books all day....
 
CubaTBird said:
I remember the columbine high school shooting a few years ago and I remember the news media kept pressing the reason of the boy's freak show was b/c they were playing DOOM. Gimmie a serious break. First of all, even at that time, DOOM came out like 9 years earlier so they wouldn't be playin it... Second... its all about family values.. Not how many monsters you see and blast to pieces. :eek:

I still play doom

thrid of all, the kid was getting bullied. After i got jumped by 3 kids in the bathroom and the school would not do **** about it (even after a lawsuit) you would not beleive how many times i almost brought a knife into school.
 
NusuniAdmin said:
I still play doom

thrid of all, the kid was getting bullied. After i got jumped by 3 kids in the bathroom and the school would not do **** about it (even after a lawsuit) you would not beleive how many times i almost brought a knife into school.

Yeah... Been there, done that, watched them shred the T-Shirt.

I still have revenge fantasies about Jr High 17 years later.
 
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