I agree with both of you. That's why I acknowledged up front that I couldn't ask everyone in the world, and wasn't purporting to making a claim that this thread represented the world. I was attempting to answer a question posed by a fellow forum member using some data as opposed to guessing, which no one had done to that point.
I'll add: even in a typically bustling MacRumors thread, I note at least one or two apologist-type contributors offering the counterpoint firsthand opinion. One or two people in this thread have said they "like the interface," but no one has specifically said they find the copious menu symbols helpful, let alone attempted to elaborate on why they find them helpful.
I'll also add: it's been a half-year since the first public beta, and a third of a year since the official release, and I haven't noted anyone, anywhere, praising the menu symbols.
If the folks at Apple actually based these seemingly wild design decisions on studies with real people rather than someone's intuition or whim, I'm still trying to find the slightest hint of it.
So, that's where I stand: I remain open-minded, I'm ready to get a broader view of what people think by way of any link, any video, any testimony, from anywhere. Please feel free to share if you find one.