This is my first full day as well and I missed a couple this morning too. But, as the day has gone on, I am getting more on and more used to it.
I turned on the "Prominent Haptic" for a while. That definitely does help you notice it. I turned it back off shortly after though, because I want to get used to the "native" way and I'm sure Prominent is harder on the battery life in the long run.