I suggest you purchase the longer cable from a vendor with a comprehensible track record like Monoprice.
They are typically very clear on the specs that their interconnects feature.
Here are label descriptions on the actual stickers on the packaging for a few Monoprice cables:
- Monoprice Select Series High Speed HDMI Cable - 4K@60Hz HDR 18Gbps YUV 4:4:4 28AWG 6ft.Black
- DynamicView Ultra 8K High Speed HDMI Cable - 48Gbps, 8K Dynamic HDR, eARC, 6ft
- Monoprice Select Series DisplayPort 1.4 Cable, 3ft
When you buy from Amazon vendors, it's often unclear what they are really selling.
Monoprice's reputation is built on selling stuff that doesn't suck at a reasonable price. If they were frequently deceitful about the products, they would have gone out of business years ago.
For these sort of applications, if I find an over-specced cable just a couple of dollars more than the one that fits the bill, I often buy the over-specced one. Yes, at some point I will probably have a need for an 8K HDMI cable.
I would favor buying the TB3 cable from Monoprice (or paying the Apple Store premium for the Apple branded cable if you are completely skittish). While there's no reason to buy the most expensive part, there's also little logic to trying to buy the cheapest one.
In any case, I would definitely look for a cable with both the Thunderbolt logo and the "3" numeral. The standards body regulations dictate that the cable can't have the printed "3" designation if it doesn't meet the standard.