telegram vs parent control

[jacku88]

Hello,
my son (13 years old) has an iPhone 13 pro. Of course, it has parental controls on messengers - time of use. Recently he has started using Telegram intensively - he is asking for an extension of time. So I decided to check for what purpose - it deletes messages. I know, you have to trust your child, but you know very well what the world looks like today...
Is there any way I can "follow" his conversations live?

 

[Bigwaff]

Nope.

 

[Mikeske]

Time to be a parent and force the kid to remove the app. There is not a way to "follow" his conversation so since that is case make him remove the app

 

[DaveS86]

Oh no come on, in this somewhat weird world we live in now kids get sexualised very early. I’ve found if you try to prevent them from doing something online they always find a way anyway. It’s hard to protect our kids but at some point we have to recognise the world we live in. I’m certainly not advocating such behaviours, but the little sods always find a way!