Is there any way to tell mail.app to not mark every message as read? Even if I try to browse my messages using the arrows, mail marks them as read! wtf? Can I tell mail.app to mark them only if I've been reading the message for 5 seconds or more? I Cant find the damn configuration for that and it's driving me nuts. I usually use mutt.. yes, I ssh to my server.. but I wanna use mail.app more, the problem is that this behavior is driving me crazy.