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As alluded to previously, while there might not be a true cap, there is likely a level at which AT&T will begin to look. It's hard, for example, to download even 1GB/month with typical iPhone use. Someone who was downloading 5GB/month would certainly be abusing the service, as that translates to (if I'm doing the math correctly) about 120KB/minute, 24/7. Nobody does that. So I'm sure AT&T could easily set up a threshold and snag people who are over a reasonable limit and then look further. I don't know what that limit might be, but I'd personally think that even 1GB/month would look suspicious, as I doubt that even 1% of all iPhone users even approach close to 1GB/month.

Obviously, they could also just inspect the data itself, and something as trivial as the browser descriptor could give away the fact that you're not surfing from your iPhone.

However, as a guess - and only as a guess - if you use tethering but keep your use to a minimum, you should be OK. But I'd use it very little.
 
I was one of the lucky ones to have PDAnet on a JB 3G iPhone and never had charges via AT&T; so I'm baffled that they can track anything. I'm tethering presently and my usage is at 85MB, which is about average for me by way of the tethering AT&T hack....
 
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