I am curious as to how someone can look at your iphone 5 running ios7 and know that you have deleted 2 messages in a conversation . This has happened to me twice !! But for the life of me I can't figure out how they know
Not sure then, maybe don't let them look through your texts. But there seems to be other issues here that I wish you the best of luck with.
Trust is easy to lose and hard to earn back.
And there is no devious plan or affair or cheating going on . I would just like to know how they did it . I have a few buddies that can use some colorful language in their texts , and once in awhile pass along a joke that some people ( including my wife ) might find offensive . So after I read it , I delete it !
This is how it's done. Even if the text has been deleted if I put something as simple as "Hi" it'll show EVERY single text that has had the word "Hi" in it. No matter in what context it was used. That goes goes for email, music titles, etc..
For example I'll search for the word love. It shows texts from the wife, a text from a friend saying how he "loved" something, a song title in my music that has love in it, etc..