well as i stated, it was lazy. i'm quite capable when i try.. anyway, the title was meant to draw people in yes, because i am so SICK of hearing the SERIOUS threads about these type of topics. its a nuisance. by the way blue velvet, i cannot recall the last time you didn't seem like that rather gloom fellow from the "Young Ones" (a most horrible british television show)
i actually stalk you online.. no.. i honestly don't. and i know you aren't male, i just.. i don't know.. every time i read a post by you i walk away thinking ":-/" but i have always found what you have to say insightful and a good additive to any thread. hope i didn't come across the wrong way.