I guess at some point my brother must have does something with his phone in my iTunes account. I notice I have a bunch of music in my iTunes library that I don't recognize and I'm assuming it must be from my brother's phone. I plugged my phone into my laptop tonight to charge it and even though I could have sworn I turned off the INCREDIBLY ANNOYING auto-iTunes-opening-when-plugging-in-your-phone option, I now have stuff like this in my iPhone music: iTunes has always befuddled me with crap like this. It's always one thing or another - taking crap off my phone, trying to stick every app I've ever downloaded in my life back onto my phone, etc. I guess I've just always fundamentally misunderstood some basic way that iTunes operates because this type of stuff has plagued me for 5 years now. For being so intuitive, iTunes sure does **** up the iPhone experience. I thought I was done with iTunes permanently, too. Anyway, I now have all this music listed on m phone but it's grayed out and I can't click on it/play it/anything. I either want to just completely wipe off this "blank" music OR "activate" it somehow. I can take it or leave it, but having my phone show this music but have it grayed out is really annoying. Tips?