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This never happened in MY school...
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MrMacman said:
If you think those girls who wear white tank tops with their bras sticking out dress "slutty" I'd hate for you to see what I choose to wear when the weather permits.
Mmmm....new forums...
60? What's wrong with that?
What's wrong with 60? Is there a guy here who DOESN'T think Diane Keaton is hot? What's that? Oh, right--anyone who gets naked with Jack Nicholson is too insane to even think about...
On a more serious note, I work in a district attorney's office and when kids start sexual activity like what was described it often means there are huge underlying problems. One kid was charged with unlawful sexual conduct for grabbing a girls breast, which is a misdemeanor in Colorado. He took a plea and in the course of therapy it turned out he had been having sex with his sisters for years. And unfortunately, the statistics show that this kid is far from the exception....
Bob
What's wrong with 60? Is there a guy here who DOESN'T think Diane Keaton is hot? What's that? Oh, right--anyone who gets naked with Jack Nicholson is too insane to even think about...
On a more serious note, I work in a district attorney's office and when kids start sexual activity like what was described it often means there are huge underlying problems. One kid was charged with unlawful sexual conduct for grabbing a girls breast, which is a misdemeanor in Colorado. He took a plea and in the course of therapy it turned out he had been having sex with his sisters for years. And unfortunately, the statistics show that this kid is far from the exception....
Bob
wdlove said:
Oh come on, they know it's sex that is why they are doing it. When I was in middle school 12+ years ago the exact same stuff happend. And, based on the stories of people much older than me I know this is nothing new. Perhaps you just may not have been one to know about it or participate in it.
wdlove said:Sadly this is being done by teenagers more frequently than parent would like. They were stupid enough to do it in school instead of in private. Teenagers have the idea that oral sex isn't sex, they learned that on TV news. Children are just growing up too fast. In my generation it was spin the bottle and playing doctor. I wonder if Mr. Anderson has had anything like that on his bus?
I know, living here on the cape, we herd about it too. Now all the teachers and parents are all shooken up and disturbed.We try to protect our children from things on the internet with filters, at the movies with the ratings, etc. But in the end we go and let them watch CNN with the parents at night...
musicpyrite said:I know, living here on the cape, we herd about it too. Now all the teachers and parents are all shooken up and disturbed.We try to protect our children from things on the internet with filters, at the movies with the ratings, etc. But in the end we go and let them watch CNN with the parents at night...
When the South Park movie came out a coworker who is somewhat adventuresome sexually learned a new word/sex act. When she talked about it to my wife and I we both knew about it. In fact I had just read about it recently in the Starr Report.
MongoTheGeek said:
You're going to make me watch that movie again to figure it out...aren't you?
cyks said:
Or read through the starr report. It was mentioned in a foot note and they used technical terms.
As a hint, its a game anyone can play...
MrMacman said:haha, maybe he feels like a pimp but no one is my school is...
If anything the girls in my school are sluts, why wear a tank top (white of coarse) baiscally see through with your bra half stickout out of the top...
Is that not suppose to provoke hormones?
Little confused what emotion girls are trying to play on if its not sex...
I think there-in lies the problem. I'm not saying that its all the fault of women dressing more provocatively, because I think guys are just as responsible for their actions. But seriously people, guys are quite visually fixated, so why is it that girls dress in a visually enticing manner, and then we become outraged when things of this nature happen?
If a guy wears revealing clothing, he gets labeled as being "gay" (no offense to those that are, merely pointing out a media-made stereotype) but a woman can wear tank tops, daisy dukes, and a thong riding up into plain sight, and that's okay? Yea, a double standard. Its especially disturbing when the girl (yes, I mean girl) in question is in middle school. What kind of message does that give people?
I dunno, as a guy, I suppose there's a war inside me, where part of me (the bad part) is all for it, but the other part of me (the far more conservative part) thinks that revealing attire is best left for the bedroom.
There could be more than we know happening with the kids in the first story than we know. As someone said - it could show an underlying problem in which case expulsion is acceptable, as long as they got appropriate guidance...
But speaking from a teenage male point of view, I can understand why they might want to do that in school. Someone else said they should have done it at home, similarly to the guys caught on the bus - but when was the last time any of you tried to have pre-marital sex at your parents house (at any age) c'mon!! You can see what drove them to it - it's one of the easiest place to do it!
Just my 2¢!
But speaking from a teenage male point of view, I can understand why they might want to do that in school. Someone else said they should have done it at home, similarly to the guys caught on the bus - but when was the last time any of you tried to have pre-marital sex at your parents house (at any age
) c'mon!! You can see what drove them to it - it's one of the easiest place to do it!Just my 2¢!
Maybe thats what happens in a blatent society, where kids have to learn about sex from tv and internet...
Instead of expelling them from school, maybe the concerned adults should consider what they've done wrong???
Or maybe thats just me being scandinavian and liberal
Instead of expelling them from school, maybe the concerned adults should consider what they've done wrong???
Or maybe thats just me being scandinavian and liberal
Dippo said:
But its the wrong attention from the wrong people that is being solicited. I noticed my wife in a crowd because she wasn't dressed indecently. (Or what I consider to be) Dressing like a skank will get very much unwanted results...Unless cat calls, leering, and come-ons are the desired response. I'd imagine in an "equality" society that we strive for, women shouldn't dress to be beholden as objects for men to leer at.
Of course, something I hadn't considered is that its done to wield power over weak(er) men.
Getting noticed indeed!. The only thing that happened in my Jr High was some girl performed beastiality on a german shepherd in the middle of the playground with about a 100 kids standing around watching.
Parkman Jr High c. 1966 Woodland Hills CA
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