So then don't use it.
Also, I absolutely do not pay Apple to make choices for me. That is profoundly asinine.
Actually I DO pay them to do that. I pay them to make a phone that just works and doesn't break down because of all the crap out there. I need my phone every single day, I need it very badly for work every single day and I love iOS (looking forward to a fresh UI though) and absolutely love that Apple makes sure the apps doesn't kill my battery or that the app store is filled up with ****! I don't have the time to look for hours around my phone to find the crap apps that might hog down the performance or battery - It should just work...
Of course there is a great amount of stuff they should not do - but rather have a bit more limited and great experience than open just for the sake of openness and a slow failing system...