The problem here is that I don't think you're giving Apple enough credit. I don't purchase an Apple product for it's nice UI, I purchase it to enable me to do things in ways that improve my experience and make my life simpler. While you could certainly argue a nicer UI is that way, I feel like given the argument that you and others are making, the real push should be for TiVO to make a better UI.
My point is that Apple gets the future: DVRs are a temporary solution to a larger issue. I don't see TiVO in 10 years still existing. While they do fit a need, and do it reasonably well, it's akin to arguing that something that automatically records NPR's Fresh Air is superior to simply pulling the show whenever you want it. While the former may serve your needs, it's not difficult to imagine a scenario in which it was much less convenient or useful.
On another note, I find television news quite appalling, and live TV seems to only suck away my time.
I think the Apple TV is attempting to balance two acts:
- You are better served for active seeking by using a computer. A laptop is a better interface for active tasks than a television ever has been... despite this ideal people have been arguing for for decades.
- Consuming media is a passive act. The Apple TV does not try to pretend that browsing the web on a television makes sense, but instead attempts to provide you with the core basics: something apple is good at. This allows you to continue to use your computer for discovering and managing new tv shows, exploring web information (weather, news, etc), while allowing you to veg out on your couch watching Lost or Zoolander.
So I disagree that Apple should be providing everything to everyone, but I do agree that this solution may not fit everyone's needs as an inherent result. Whether or not it fits enough peoples needs and will adapt over time to be a better fit for some who don't find this product to fit their needs, remains to be seen.