You are totally justified to be frustrated with this situation.
There are many kind people on this forum trying to help you out, so if you can be more specific with what’s not working with the solutions people have mentioned hopefully someone will chime in with just the right thing.
If you don’t even want to mess with Time Machine, you will sure get many helpful suggestions for other backup solutions (Carbon Copy Cloner, Super Duper, etc.). If you want to move on from your Mac completely, many people will suggest alternatives. And if you just want to vent about a lousy experience, that’s fine too! Many people will commiserate with you.
best of luck